Changes

Life can sometimes be so unpredictable. It has so much beauty in so many different places. To share a life with someone and to learn to be OK with all their differences takes time but to love someone unconditionally takes a way of being. A new love a new life is sometimes harder on the heart then it is on the mind. When a heart breaks it crumbles into many pieces where our mind learns to say what we think and move on but our heart hurts for a much longer time. In families and relationships it is a lot easier to act as if life in general is an ease even when we all know that sometimes life is lived on a day by day basis because being in relationships can bring so many changes to your life. Letting a piece of yourself be shared with another human being is scary and to some of us could be dangerous if we don't stand up for ourselves. The biggest thought is that when we are young we are so very inexperienced and when we become older and yes wiser we also carry baggage over to each other. To be happy while learning to experience life but also to be happy while learning to rediscover life. Loving someone is the hardest thing that we can do. There sometimes is not a right way or a wrong way to love someone. There is only a right or wrong when it comes to our behaviors. When a heart loves it loves completely. The boundaries often become blurred as too what makes us happy and what helps us to hold onto what makes us feel whole. Being in misery is not a way of living. Being yourself and learning to face the changes in your life and accepting the changes as a challenge that you will welcome and over come is a blessing that sometimes we all need for cleansing the soul and rebooting who and what we have become.