Minus the Space of Love

As we long for the love of a lifetime its easy to sometimes miss the meat of the reasons why you love someone. What makes us feel this way. A heart that aches because of loneliness but still claims to love someone and to share their life with that someone? Is there more than just the words and the occasional touch that sparks the warm and tender places in the person? How important is intimacy in building and holding together a relationship? So many questions yet no real easy answers. To love someone but still feel so alone. How can you feel that way about another when you have easy access to them? How can you hope to feel complete when you feel and see the hole in your life on a daily basis? How much time do you spend getting to know that person? An aching in your heart does not define love but it can define loneliness and the desire to not only be loved but a desire to want more out of life than survival. Everyone deserves a chance to grow and be the most positive and strong and powerful in their living that a person can be. To smile and reach out to others without having a doubting soul, an empty soul because we feel incomplete, unworthy because another person only wants us when they want us and never when we want them. You cant feel love and appreciate it in its entirety unless you take time to develop what is laid out in front of you. To love someone is to hold them close to your heart and to know what they mean in your life all the time. To feel that without their presence You would simply fade into the dark. To see that two can become one when the love is as it should be. The lives intertwine and become complete as one. They fill the "Space of Love" with interactions, conversations, intimacy, memories, in the end they fill their lives with each other and leave no doubt as to who they truly love and How it is defined in their lives. If you feel lonely and incomplete then perhaps we should look at our own lives and redefine our love and survival skills. Do we love to complete our lives or do we love to survive? Which definition fits you?