appreciate her attitude and
her sense of humor about making my morning as special as she can. I
don't recall her name but names aren't my strong point, People and their
gestures are. She makes the stop all worth it even if I was to not buy a
single thing.....Well that doesn't usually happen though! She is always
willing to fix something up for me. If you get a chance stop by and try
her breakfast pizza! Its one of the best! Tell her you heard how
wonderful she was and you needed the pep talk! She tells me she doesnt
get enough people for breakfast....stop and say hi! You wont regret it!
Thanks again for the friendly face! You make my day wonderful from the
start!
I started this blog as a way to voice what I was feeling inside about life in general and to honor my mothers wisdom of all she taught me in how to accept life and its trials.God planned this world and gave us the human touch to either love one another or be miserable and lonely without ever understanding how beautiful this life is. Life is what we make it even if its not intentional! Life depends on what we are willing to experience so lets experience some of life together.
Friday, November 9, 2012
A Friendly Face
I am thankful for a friendly face. There have
been a few mornings over the last few years that I stop by the Iuka
General Store on my way to work. The ladies and some gents are always
nice in there but there has been one particular young lady that greets
me with a smile and a chuckle while we discuss breakfast pizza or
sausage and egg biscuit......LOL! Well it may not seem like a lot to
some but I
Thursday, November 8, 2012
An Essence of Being
I am thankful for the ability to love and to be able to remember that love. Life has so many ups and downs and losses in between. To remember the things that you love, The people that you love and to cherish those memories are the essence of what carries us through our lifetime. A touch of a hand, a sound of a voice or even just the wisdom of what they have shared with us or taught us from what we saw in our loved ones....To love someone with all that makes us who we are is too create a being that no one can interfere with. The world cannot touch what we build in our hearts and our minds with another person...they can only sway our decisions but they can never feel that inner peace that we have from once loving another. So the ability to love....is ....one of many gifts that God gives us but one of the most important ones he gives us for survival!
Wednesday, November 7, 2012
Voices Speaking as One
To feel wanted and needed, complete as a whole
is important when you work in Social Work. You easily become tainted by
what we see and what we do. There really are no easy answers when it
comes to working with other peoples lifes but life is bareable when the
people you work with become not only your collegues but your friends.
You all know boundaries and dont exactly hang out but at the same time
you know that if you are in trouble or have a tough question then they
have your back! I am lucky and thankful that my crew is a team that has
learned to cry together, to be angry together and to laugh together. I
not only have good coworkers that I am proud to have in my corner but I
have a good boss that cares about her employees. She directs us but she
also respects us and teaches to remember to respect each other. No one
and no one place is perfect but I am thankful for the laughter that I
share with co workers. I look forward to seeing them and experiencing
the day as it unfolds. Sometimes our days are revealed to us as
unbelievable but together as a team we stand strong. For that
strength......I am going to forever be greatful to my team of friends
and those who lead us and band together with us! Personalities working
together make us strong in number and they increase the volume of the
voices for those we serve! I am very thankful on this day 6 to have so
many voices speaking as one!
Dea and the Spoon Theory
My
mom always told me to say what I am feeling. To express to others while
they are with me how much they mean to me. Once they are gone they cant
hear or read what I may say and.......if I pass before them then they
may never know how impo
rtant they were to
my life....so....on this fifth day of thanks giving I need to say that I
am the oldest of about 32 grandkids and though each one of my cousins
hold a very important place in my heart with many unique and blessing
memories of their own....there are two who have taught me about strength
and courage and they inspire me to be a better person every day....Dea
and Kyle
are a brother and sister team that remind me to appreciate my daily
life. The struggles they face on a daily basis I cant even begin to
imagine. Cystic Fibrosis is what controls their bodies but their hearts
are so full of love and laughter and faith that they struggle on despite
the challenges that they face just to get through each new day! I have
never saw such giving and caring as what I have witnessed Dea to give
towards others! She loves when she sometimes barely has the strength to
get through the day. Any time I have asked her about her....I always see
her courage first and foremost. She doesnt allow her CF to take over.
She knows that someone is always watching. Kyle inspires me with his
faith in God and the fact that he has told me there is not enough time
in this world to waste it being spent on bad thoughts, past wrongs and
whatever someone else is doing that they should not be doing. No one is
perfect and everyone learns from mistakes but these two....have taught
me to think before I speak and to remember that each new day is a gift
not a given.....Dea once shared with me a story called the Spoon Theory
written by Christine Miserandino. The story explains what it is like to
have something wrong with you that no body else can see. For many if you
dont look sick...then they think that you aren't! For those that have
Cystic Fibrosis every breath is a trial and a blessing! IN THEIR HONOR
PLEASE CHECK OUT THIS STORY "THE SPOON THEORY" http://www.butyoudontlooksick.com/articles/written-by-christine/the-spoon-theory/
AND DONATE TO YOUR NEAREST CYSTIC FIBROSIS FOUNDATION! ...I LOVE YOU
DEA AND KYLE! THANK YOU FOR LOVING ME BACK AND ALLOWING ME TO SHARE IN
ALL THAT YOU DO! I AM SO THANKFUL FOR EVERY DAY YOU TWO ARE IN MY LIFE!
THE WAY YOU EMBRACE LIFE IS WHAT TEACHES ME THAT EACH NEW DAY......IS A
MIRACLE ALL IN ITSELF! :)
The Spoon Theory written by Christine Miserandino | But You Dont Look Sick? support for those with i
www.butyoudontlooksick.com
Please take the time to read Christine Miserandino's personal story and analogy of
Thank you and Pay it Forward
Hey Everybody, I got a challenge over November
and December for each of you with a story behind it. This morning I was
going thru the drive thru at McDonalds in Salem and to my awe....the
BLACK ALTIMA in front of me had paid for my food. When I asked the lady
at the window if she was sure....she just smiled and said its paid for. I
don't know who the person was but thanks to their generosity i am
asking
my friends, family and acquaintances to help me pay a forward. I
challenge you all to do something nice for someone else. Big or little
it doesn't matter. ITS THE GESTURE OF CARING ABOUT ANOTHER! YOU NEVER
KNOW HOW YOUR GENEROSITY WILL EFFECT THOSE AROUND YOU! LETS START A
CHAIN REACTION IN SALEM AND AROUND THE AREA! IF YOU FEEL THE
CHALLENGE....START IT IN YOUR AREA! TELL MY STORY, TELL OTHERS STORIES!
If you can pay it forward secretively then that makes it all the better
but if you cant.....its a pay it forward still! Call it a Christmas gift
if you will! Many of us are hurting right now, emotionally, financially
and some physically. Make your pay it forward count and come back and
tell us about it! Dont say to who or exactly where. Just talk about the
gestures you made. THANK YOU TO THE PERSON IN THE BLACK ALTIMA! I
ACTUALLY CRIED TEARS OF HAPPINESS OVER WHAT YOU DID! NOW, LETS ALL GET
OUT THERE AND DO SOMETHING! BRING US BACK A STORY! SOMEBODY, NEAR OR FAR
ARE IN NEED OF YOUR PAY IT FORWARD! GIVE A LITTLE AND GOD BLESS!
...............I CANT WAIT TO HEAR SOME STORIES!
Two things
Two things I am thankful for since I missed
day one.....: 1: my son and daughter in law! I love them very much and
all though life can be a little hard and tough sometimes..just knowing
that they are there and a part of my life....gives me great strength and
lots of love. They are a huge blessing to my heart! 2: Joes girls Gwen
and Jozie...I cant imagine my life without them and they teach me knew
lessons about the world and ways to exist in it that I treasure! Steven,
Nikki, Gwen and Jozie..I love all four of you very much and I am very
thankful that God blessed my life with all of your footprints on my
soul. YOu make me a better person with each new day! :)
Family Tradition
So...new day, new motivation...so much family
tradition beginning and so much to pass down to the next
generation....but while you are teaching...just remember the real reason
that Halloween, Thanksgiving and Christmas are so fun and heart
warming.....Its called family and learning to appreciate each other. God
put us all together for a reason. Take the best parts and pass those
memories down to t
he next generation but
remember..little ears are always open so for the stories that are not so
glorifying and we cant help but remember them....make sure the little
ones are asleep or at a very good distance. Some stories are not meant
to be repeated for years to come. Mistakes are exactly
that...MISTAKES...teach them to appreciate the person for who they are
presently...not for what they may have been on not such a good day or
part of their life. Pass down a tradition of happiness not one of being
judgmental! Little ears do listen when we least expect it!
A Reminder of How The World Should Be
Kira Troiaposted toWalmart
October 25 at
6:35pm via mobile ·
This is a post that appeared on my facebook about a Cashier and what she witnessed with a family in her check out line! I could not repost it unless I did it this way...so...here we go! Proof that Angels really do walk among us! He set an example....lets follow the lead and pay it forward ourselves when possible! You never know who you might be touching! :)
Kira Troiaposted toWalmart
October 25 at
I'm a cashier at store 1883 and feel like I need to share this story. Tonight at the end of my shift I shut my light off and started ringing out my last customers of the day. They where a young married couple in their early 20's with an infant girl. As I was scanning their items a man starts to come in my line asking if I was closed. As much as I just wanted to go home I said yes but ill take you. He thanked me and waited patiently while the husband and wife tried different cards to pay for their groceries, diapers, and other baby items. Decline after decline the women was visibly shaken. As they started to go through their bags to put stuff back the man stepped up to the debit reader and swiped his card. They didn't even realize until I handed them the receipt and said he just paid for it for you. They where in complete shock, the wife teared up while thanking him as the husband shook his hand and thanked him. I also teared up and told him what a wonderful man he was and that was the nicest thing I have ever seen. Instead of taking credit His response was that I had made it happen for letting him check out at my register after I was closed. What an awesome selfless person, an angel on earth!!
October 25 at
6:35pm via mobile ·
This is a post that appeared on my facebook about a Cashier and what she witnessed with a family in her check out line! I could not repost it unless I did it this way...so...here we go! Proof that Angels really do walk among us! He set an example....lets follow the lead and pay it forward ourselves when possible! You never know who you might be touching! :)
Kira Troiaposted toWalmart
October 25 at
I'm a cashier at store 1883 and feel like I need to share this story. Tonight at the end of my shift I shut my light off and started ringing out my last customers of the day. They where a young married couple in their early 20's with an infant girl. As I was scanning their items a man starts to come in my line asking if I was closed. As much as I just wanted to go home I said yes but ill take you. He thanked me and waited patiently while the husband and wife tried different cards to pay for their groceries, diapers, and other baby items. Decline after decline the women was visibly shaken. As they started to go through their bags to put stuff back the man stepped up to the debit reader and swiped his card. They didn't even realize until I handed them the receipt and said he just paid for it for you. They where in complete shock, the wife teared up while thanking him as the husband shook his hand and thanked him. I also teared up and told him what a wonderful man he was and that was the nicest thing I have ever seen. Instead of taking credit His response was that I had made it happen for letting him check out at my register after I was closed. What an awesome selfless person, an angel on earth!!
A Gift, not a privelege
Today's a day of blessing just like any other
except....sometimes you have to remember to appreciate what you do have
and realize......that each new day....is a gift...not a privilege. So
take the best parts of it with you in your thoughts.....tomorrow....you
may not get this gift again! So, make it be worth something....even in
the worst of your day!......
Educate
Priceless
thought! Value your child enough to teach them to value life. Being
human is one of the greatest gifts of life! Dont loss your human touch!
Inspire yourself ~ share and Motivate others
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daily tips & Wonderful posters.
Saturday, September 29, 2012
Love of a Child |
Rayne Issac
The love between a mother and a child bears no boundaries. To see the way a mothers life disappears as she looks upon her child with so much love and pride to have him in her arms. To think of all the future holds and how this little beautiful boy already depends on her for every moment of his life. He is so content with no tears only breaths of safety and a look of security beams from him as he is snuggled away in his mothers arms. Others look upon them and smile so brightly because mothers who have come before her.....we know that the child in her arms....makes her complete. This is a mother who will protect and love her child for all eternity! She has found her growth, her strength and her future!
Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Believe!
Some hearts can be lost, full of fear and uncertainty but when you take the time and make yourself look for what gives you strength the fear will lessen and the loss will hopefully remind you of another blessing from some where else. Its ok to be sad but never forget to be hopeful! Anything in life is possible if you believe in the right controller!!!
Tuesday, January 31, 2012
Like a Well
Children are like deep wells....often flowing with water to quench their thirst however if we rely only on nature to teach them and keep them full of water then their walls can become over powered and weak and begin to crumble...its up to the ones that love them to lead by example and help them to learn as the waters rise and fall in their lives.. answer their questions and discipline with a lesson! Keep them strong! It is our responsibility...running from it...wont change the water flow..only their survival.....
Friday, January 27, 2012
Talk to the One who created this journey
Some days are better than others but when you feel all chewed up inside and hurting and searching for hope and a better day or way of life....PRAY! Even if you don't believe...is it gonna really hurt anything to just take a few moments, breath....and talk to the one who started your journey.....Think about it! After all...he will be the one deciding how the road you take next will effect your life! Give him a chance. You might find strength that you never knew you had! :)
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Blessings
Sunday, January 22, 2012
Mothers
Life started the first day I felt your touch...you taught me to love, to hold and to understand another... a mothers love holds more tenderness then can ever be imagined. Just remember....that the term mother...doesn't always describe the one who gave birth to you! Thank you mom, for making me who I am!!!!!
Life holds so many ups and downs that the world can sometimes close in on you so fast. A life can be changed so quickly by the touch of another. A mother whether flesh or not has a touch for most of us to calm all fears and place us back to where we are calm and collected. For those of us who the name of mother makes us cringe then remember the voice or the touch of the one who made you stand strong but held onto who you were and what made you who you are. Its very unlikely that a person survives this world without a memory or a thought of a yet to come that can soften all their heartaches. For today......remember the good in where you came from and what holds you together. Stay focused and appreciate what God puts in front of you! You are who you are for a reason! :)Thursday, January 12, 2012
To tell someone you love them comes from the heart but to tell another that you hate them comes from the mouth of regrets! You never know when impulse makes us be haunted by stupidity of not thinking before we speak!
Love doesn't always mean being right or wrong! Its about compromising for the better good and the life ahead that you build as two! Always remember to love the one your with and to never forget that you are individuals....so having your own opinion is a blessing....however pick your moments to expression...sharing a life takes two!
At that very moment that love warms your heart....even for a brief second....you realize that living,.... is worth all the challenges that God puts before you!
Never Alone
Before my mom died when I was 21 she hugged me and mouthed the words I love you to me....That was the longest yet shortest hug she ever gave me! The moment that will live on forever in my heart when it aches for her. Moms may not always agree with us but God made them to teach us and love and comfort us...not to let us roll over them with disrespect... She will always be my friend and the true love of my life. I hope down deep that my son will always feel the same about me.
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